Redefining Perfection
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Perfection. It’s one of those words that can either motivate us or totally paralyze us. For years, I was caught up in the chase for this elusive idea of perfection. Whether it was crafting social media posts, delivering workshops, or coaching my clients, I believed that if everything wasn’t flawlessly executed, I’d somehow fall short in the eyes of others.
Then, during a coaching session, my coach mentioned something that really struck a chord: she noticed an undertone of perfectionism in everything I did. I hadn’t realized I was still holding myself to this rigid standard of perfection. It was a lightbulb moment. I saw how this mindset was not only exhausting but also holding me back from taking risks and embracing new opportunities.
So, I started to rethink what perfection meant to me, and here’s some ways I redefined it:
Perfect Organization: There’s a certain joy in having everything neatly arranged, whether it's tidying up my office or organizing my thoughts. I used to think my office had to be immaculate all the time, but now I realize that it’s okay if it gets a bit messy. What matters is that I can find what I need and feel comfortable in my space. This reimagined approach still brings a sense of order, but without the pressure of constant tidiness.
Perfect Creativity: This means embracing the chaos or the calm. I used to feel I was less than because I couldn’t always be creative on demand, which stifled my spontaneity and flow. Now, I give myself grace and switch tasks if it’s just not working at that time. Creativity doesn’t always happen in my office or during work hours—it might strike while I'm on a walk, cooking dinner, or even in the middle of the night. Creating when creativity shows up helps me save time and stay in the zone.
Perfect Relaxation: Sometimes, perfection is about doing absolutely nothing. I used to feel guilty about taking time off, believing that every moment needed to be productive. Now, lounging on the couch, watching TV, and recharging are moments I cherish. These moments are pure bliss and a reminder that downtime is just as important as productivity.
These are just a few examples of the different types of perfection I’ve come to embrace. Each one plays a unique role in my life and adds to my overall sense of fulfillment and happiness.
Now, think about your own relationship with perfection. Is it helping you, or is it holding you back? Maybe it’s time to see perfection not as a single, unattainable goal but as a spectrum of experiences. By challenging our notions of perfection, we open ourselves to new possibilities and greater fulfillment.
Let’s redefine perfection together—not as a flawless standard, but as a celebration of our unique contributions to the world. True perfection lies not in being flawless but in being authentic and courageous enough to embrace our imperfections as part of our growth journey.
